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Here is your answer!Not to mention that most of that money will be spent with people who want to disarm you.
Equates a resounding NO!
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Here is your answer!Not to mention that most of that money will be spent with people who want to disarm you.
They'll be divorced on two years so no.Got a last minute wedding invite from a cousin who I'm not really close with and know that they couldn't care less if I was there or not. I'm getting married next summer and wasn't considering inviting them because I assumed they could care less.
Anways im getting slack from my folks for saying I don't want to go.
Here's the deal tho. They're Californians. They're also the type of ppl that want a wedding they can't afford in an area they and their guests can't afford. My parents are literally not able to afford to go to this wedding but they're gonna go either way. I said F that. I'm not gonna spend 3k in flights and hotels to maybe see the cousin for 10 seconds and say congrats.
But as I said, I'm getting slack for it. Am I a total dick for thinking it's not worth it?
Me and the fiance are on a big savings kick and we've added another 6 figures to our savings account in the last 3.5 years and we are super conservative with our spending. These people haven't reached out to us in 3+ years but now we are being pressured to come to their wedding.
Am I a dick? Am I being selfish for saying I don't wanna go?
Except you have to RSVP. I mean, some people wouldn't care about taking up a spot and bailing...Covid
^^^ In plastic "no-fault" California, where divorce first became a sport in 1968... the odds of this are good.They'll be divorced on two years so no.
"Except you have to RSVP. I mean, some people wouldn't care about taking up a spot and bailing."Lots of great advice here.
Don't go. This is an opportunity to stand up for something when it's hard. Your wife will respect you for it. Who cares what anyone else thinks, they don't know what's good for the two of you.
Except you have to RSVP. I mean, some people wouldn't care about taking up a spot and bailing...
^^^ In plastic "no-fault" California, where divorce first became a sport in 1968... the odds of this are good.
I have a couple friends who moved to California for work many years ago. Both had affairs and got into money problems. Now they're in counseling and still miserable. The temptation down there is extraordinarily high, whatever your vice. The smart people I know left California soon after being married. It's not a place to raise a family anymore. At least not Los Angeles/Orange.
No you are not a dick!! Forget what anyone else says or thinks. You are a grownassed man and need to live only with yourself, wife and kids. And California for hell sakes! *Shudder*But as I said, I'm getting slack for it. Am I a total dick for thinking it's not worth it?